At least i still got my own Star Trek, Culture series, and Dr. Who circles to enjoy sci fi without toxicity.
Every fanbase gets to be absurd because it turns into it's own little religious cult. At some point you will be partaking in a circlejerk.
I stopped giving a shit about Fallout (more or less) a few years ago, which allowed me to see the errors of my ways. I met a lot of good people, most of them not rapists. Only hate remains. I must transmute it into something useful.
You need to ignore DakkaDakka and the usual suspects that fucking explode on there when GW scratches their testicles.