The poorly behaving ones speak for themselves - destroying archaeological legacy, destroying cultural heritage, ruining daily life for locals, killing wildlife through stress and disruption
When I go to my family in Spain, I'm a visitor, not a tourist. I live in her apartment, and I go to the grocery store, and should I rarely go to the beach, I take the bus to the local one.
I've only ever been a proper tourist in my own Norway, visiting picturesque villages with my gf, and I sooo feeel like a filthy tourist when I do
First thing we do though, is try to get lost - get off the beaten track, and wander about where the locals live. Obv. any local we then encounter, will hear our accents, and think "oh dear, those poor tourists - they're WAY lost!"
Lighten up man. I like doing all the low-key stuff in equal measure to get a taste of normality but you gotta do all the cheesy tourist shit too. It's part of the same big picture of experiencing somewhere properly IMO
We're probably different then, I find very little attraction in most tourism spots - Norwegians flock to Turkey, Greece, Thailand and Spain.
Since I got family in Spain, my (nor.) mom often bounced off me the idea of doing a pure tourism-trip there, go to a hotel, hang at the beach, wear Mexican sombreros, just to enfuriate the Spanish people - you know, BE Norwegian tourists, and I just... can't...