Ryuji and the two gay dudes was even rewritten as Ryuji being a willing crossdresser. THAT is a case of not treating a character and sexuality surrounding them with respect, but Ann's close friends making tiny jabs that she never shuts down with any seriousness isn't.
This is peak projection. I'm simply saying how the Japansese people view these scenarios, and you're going on about how tentacle monsters aren't going to gangbang Akechi or some shit. Like, yeah, I can tell the difference between Japan IRL and a fictitious Japan, but you're talkig aboutan imaginary western-coated Japan